A Public Letter of Apology

Dear Hubby,

As it turns out, you are not such big faker! For years now I’ve thought that you, hmmm how should I put it? com­plain unne­ces­sa­rily put on quite a thea­tri­cal per­for­mance each and every time you get sick. You shi­ver, and shake. You com­plain of being cold, then hot. You stay in bed, dead to the world for three days at a time. You stop short of rin­ging a bell for me to tend to your needs. (Thank good­ness for the inter­com sys­tem our pho­nes came equip­ped with. It’s a beep I get, not a bell!) And all this time I thought it was an act!

Yes­ter­day and today I have slowly come to the rea­li­za­tion that maybe, just maybe you’re not such a big faker. As I watched BC shi­ver uncon­tro­llably yes­ter­day, and again today, then imme­dia­tely spike a high fever; it daw­ned on me that for all these years your com­plaints might actually have been warranted.

So, for the record, I’m sorry. I’m sorry for calling you a baby belie­ving you weren’t as sick as maybe you really were and rolling my eyes being a bit frus­tra­ted when you called me on the inter­com to bring you a cool, moist washc­loth. As it turns out you were, in fact, sick! Who knew?

Now, if only mom’s had the luxury of shut­ting down com­ple­tely when sick­ness con­sume our bodies.… But that’s neither here nor there. What’s impor­tant is, thanks to your son, I now believe you. :-)

With love,
Smi­ling Mom

5 Comments »

  1. lady macleod said,

    May 24, 2007 @ 6:02 am

    I am sorry to hear your son is ill. I don’t know, I think the less serious a disease or injury the lou­der a male voi­ces his dis­com­fort. When you really worry is when they wince quietly. Very kind of you to give him the bene­fit of the doubt.

  2. Smiling Mom said,

    May 24, 2007 @ 6:34 am

    So true!

  3. Lady M said,

    May 24, 2007 @ 9:40 am

    Poor babies, the little one and the big one! Peo­ple really react so dif­fe­rently to ill­ness, don’t they?

  4. Shauna said,

    May 24, 2007 @ 4:12 pm

    Hila­rious!
    But I’m sorry to hear you’ve got sick ones (big and little) in your house.

  5. Hubby said,

    May 24, 2007 @ 7:59 pm

    You are forgiven…

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